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By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM and Dani Slaugh, Conselle Affiliate

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“You are what you eat.”  ”Sit like a lady.”  “Walk tall, remember who you are.”  Do any of these comments sound familiar?  How about the one that says, “sooner or later we all quote our mothers”? Each of us are a product of our environment, and we soak up more wisdom from our mothers than we realize.  Some of this was spoken, but much of what we learned is unspoken.   As our tribute to all of the beautiful mothers out there, we decided to ask the fashion and image experts from Conselle what their mothers or grandmothers taught them about beauty.  We’d love to hear your comments as well!

“My mom loved to dress me up when I was a little girl, and I still love to dress up!  She taught me to take care of yourself, have fun doing it, and enjoy looking your best.”  Ann Johnson

“Lucky for me, I’ve had an wonderful mother as a teacher.  When I was 12, my mother took me to the Clinique Counter to have my make-up done and learn about skin care.  Although I wore little more than mascara and lip gloss, I gained an understanding of how to take care of myself as a young woman.  Later on, when I had the opportunity to travel, my mother taught me the “Dress for Success” concepts of having basic, versatile pieces, enabling me to pack light, but efficient, and effective, prepared for a great trip. ”  Dani Slaugh 

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“Always be true to yourself, carry yourself with confidence, and wear the right  clothes to the right place.”  Cristina Johnson

“My mom never dyes her hair and rarely wears makeup. My sisters and I tease her that she didn’t give us girl lessons, but she taught us that if your appearance is neat and coordinated, you don’t need a lot of makeup. (She also taught us how to sew and mend, which is very important when it comes to looking neat and coordinated…)”  Heidi Lynn Chochran

“From my grandmother about the importance of a slip, ‘Because ladies wear underwear, that’s why!’”  Cheryl Obermiller

“NEVER chew gum in public! She was right–statistically, people who chew gum in front of others are perceived as less intelligent and less economically stable.” Beth Yvette Strange

“‘Head, shoulders, knees and toes,’ is what my mother taught me regarding clothing fit, feel, and hem length.  Touch your head, shoulders, knees, and bend over and touch your toes.  If you can’t reach comfortably or bend modestly, you need a better fit.”  Judi Rasband

“I learned more from watching my mother, than from any particular thing that she said.”  Kathy Adams1a87977bc7aa6481418dcae9a37925de

How about you?  What did your mother teach you about fashion and beauty?

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By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM and Dani Slaugh, Conselle Affiliate

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1. Experience an energizing self-discovery.
2. Gain information you’ll want to teach your family.
3. Never be a fashion victim again!
4. Save time, money, space, and simplify your life!
5. Have fun with fashion and make it work for you!

Learn more about our Style for Life Retreat here:  http://conselle.com/image-enhancement-retreat.php

or call 801.224.1207

Take an empowering journey that makes you stop and think seriously about your values, attitudes, interests, roles, and goals as they relate to the way you present yourself – the way you think, feel, act or behave, and the way others react or respond to you. The result? Old attitudes an inhibitors will give way to new attitudes and strategies for personal image management and family wardrobe management. The sooner you learn the valuable concepts, strategies, and skills, the more effective and efficient you will become.

 When

Monday, May 6, 2013 to
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Where

Little America Hotel
500 S Main Street
Salt Lake City, UT 84101
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by Friday, April 26, 2013

(Early Bird Discount before April 12, 2013)

Book your Style For Life adventure by calling 801.224.1207 and learn enough about how to dress, care for, and carry yourself to last a lifetime & simplify your life in the process.

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By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM and Dani Slaugh, Conselle Affiliate

Is the thought of back to school shopping stressing you out?   I’ve been having the same reoccuring nightmare the last couple of weeks.  It involves me and my 3 sweet angelic children, who suddenly transform into a bunch of crazies when I even mention the words “back to school shopping.”  Taking 3 kids to a store, darting in 3 different directions, yelling “come with me Mom” and “I really need this!” is all too memorable from last year, and not something that I want to repeat.  No, I’m determined to make back to school shopping as stress-free as possible.  Judith wrote about this in her first book publication, Clothing the Family.  Here is the advise she gives:

1.   Evaluate their wardrobe - A wardrobe evaluation is a great way for you to spend some one-on-one time with your child before their day is taken up with school and other activities.  Be sure to listen and thoughtfully consider children’s attitudes and ideas, you may find time for a few teaching moments as well. 

2.   Make a list of needs – In this non-emotional situation, parents can lead children through the logic of planning for needs and goals versus wants and fashion-for-the-sake-of-fashion.  Create a list that you and your child can agree upon and congratulate yourselves on a successful planning session.

3.   Know where you are going before you leave the house – This may involve searching the internet to know which stores carry what you need.  The more efficient you are in the store, the better spirits everyone with have.

Prepare to keep calm, carry on and enjoy your stress-free shopping excursion.

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Improve Your Image in 2010! Photo c/o family-vacation-getaways.com

By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM

Happy New Year!  As you resolve to dress in a more authentic manner in 2010, here are some tips to improve your image in 2010! 

  • Tip to Improve Your Image #1: Wear clothes that fit well — you’ll look slimmer and smarter in clothes that fit with a little extra ease around the body.
  • Tip to Improve Your Image #2: Rather than limiting yourself to a narrow range of clothing styles, colors or fabrics, remain open.  Become more aware of creative combinations in line, shape, color and texture as shown in magazine pictures and store displays.
  • Tip to Improve Your Image #3: Don’t overdo the accessories and decorative detail in your outfit.  Create one major point of emphasis with decoration or accessories, usually near your face.  All other areas and accessories should be less important in the amount of attention they claim.
  • Tip to Improve Your Image #4: Clothing worn dancing on Saturday night isn’t appropriate for the office.  Save the glitter and glitz for after dark. 
  • Tip to Improve Your Image #5: Don’t be afraid to try out a new look for fear of making a mistake.  Experiment with looks you like.  If you make an occasional mistake, it’s a good indication that you’re learning.  And when you resolve not to make that same mistake again, you come closer to your goal of creating the look you like.

Resolutions give purpose, structure and control to our lives — goals to work toward as you begin the new year.  Set yourself small, realistic goals with immediate results. 

If you have questions about how to begin and reach your image-improvement goals, send them to judith [at] conselle[dot] com. 

Copyright Judith Rasband and Conselle L.C. 2009

Judith Rasband is the Image Expert and would love to work with you!  2010 is a great time to turn the page and welcome in a more authentic version of you.  Visit www.conselle.com or call 801-224-1207 to learn more.

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By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM

Snoop shopping in our local malls, you can find classic clothes and sporty clothes, trendy clothes and snazzy clothes, leather jackets and sweat knit hoodies, tailored styles and cutesy styles.  We’ve got a lot to choose from, yet few are choosing.

Fashion books and experts continually advise us to discover, develop and stick to a personal style.  They point out that the most memorable, secure and successful people can be identified by a consistent style of dress and grooming.  This is generally true.  And next thing you know, they’re telling you what the latest “must have” is.

So how does one go about figuring out their own personal style?  Personal style is usually defined as the way we take an existing fashion or fad and make it uniquely personal.  It’s not just the clothes that count, it’s the way you wear them—your way.

Personal style is an acquired quality that develops from within.  As we observe, imitate, and learn from the styles of others, we edit those observations and ideas to fit our personal needs.  We, in essence, become a visual composite of many people and many styles, ultimately projecting a unique image of ourselves.

Discovering your personal style comes right down to the nitty-gritty of deciding what specific characteristics of dress and design you are most comfortable wearing most of the time–and feel you could wear for the rest of your life.  Personal style implies a consistency in the selection of lines, shapes, colors, patterns and textures.

The specific degrees of each of these details of dress communicate your personality traits and reflect your values, attitudes, interests and lifestyle as they project to self and others an image of the person within.  This is personal style.

Personal style may reflect a woman as daringly dramatic, daintily demure or a delightful blend in between;  as super sportive, radiantly romantic or a surprising and complementary combination of both;   as a traditionally classic conservative, a trendsetting free spirit, or a marvelous mix in between.

And again, if you think this applies to women only, think again.  A man’s personal style may project him as being macho or mellow, traditional or trendy, shabby or sharp.

For some, the discovery and decisions about dress come almost intuitively.  They seem to have an inherent sense of what feels and looks “right” for them.  For others, it takes conscious effort to become more aware, to study and to experiment.

Personal style is not something you are born with, can borrow or buy.  Regardless of how you acquire yours, it takes years of living, learning and experience to develop a style of your own.

And in the final analysis, I must admit that personal style is often more easily felt than explained.

Copyright Judith Rasband and Conselle L.C. 2009

Judith Rasband is the Image Expert and would love to help you discover your own personal style!  Visit www.conselle.com or call 801-224-1207 to learn more.

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By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM

Remember those people you always watched in high school? You know, the girls and guys who looked just right, as well as the few who looked like a fright. Let’s face it, people are continually noticing one another, forming impressions and making judgments based on appearance. So why not do it with a purpose once in a while?

Purposeful ‘people watching’ can help you become more aware of specific dress and grooming practices. And as you become more aware of your own appearance and can then make a change for the better if it’s called for.

“People watching” may help you avoid altogether some of the most common mistakes. Anyplace where large numbers of people gather is a good place to ‘people watch.’ The people in the library, grocery store, cafeteria or movie theater are often more interesting than what is in the books, on the shelves, the menu or the movie screen.

A large metropolitan airport is an ideal spot for people watching. You’ll see people with total variety in lifestyle, cultural and geographical backgrounds, values, attitudes and interests, as well as the random assortment of sizes and shapes. Pick your place, clear your mind and just watch. Take a few moments out of your own shopping time and plant yourself on a bench where you have full view of the comings and goings. (And don’t panic if they notice you’re watching—just smile and turn your attention elsewhere.)

Watch what people are wearing and how they’re wearing it. Is the clothing appropriate for the occasion, the weather and the person’s age, personality, figure and personal coloring?

Try to become aware of your own reactions to those you see. Catch your first impressions. If you don’t like the way someone looks, try to figure out why. Maybe her skirt pulls tight over her fanny and the hem hikes three inches shorter in back than front. Or maybe his plaid pants fight with his striped shirt and polka dot tie.

If your first thoughts were “sharp,” “looks terrific,” or “I’d like to look like that,” try to figure out how the various parts fo the outfit have been put together and how the grooming details contribute to the harmony of the total look. You’re sure to pick up some pointers.

“People watching” can be a fun, fascinating and informative pastime. It’s a never-ending adventure in expanding your awareness, sensitivity and objectivity. Use it to your advantage.

Copyright Judith Rasband and Conselle L.C. 2009

Judith Rasband is the Image Expert and would love to work with you!  Visit www.conselle.com or call 801-224-1207 to learn more.

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By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM

“The family that prays together stays together,” was a popular slogan in years past.  Now it’s “The family that eats together” that’s more likely to stay together.  In recent surveys, I confirmed that many Utah Valley families no longer eat family dinner together and it’s been coming on for years.

Our fast pace of life leaves no time to fully embrace the dining experience.  We rush from home to school or work, to music lessons and sports practice, to some form of entertainment—or we get bogged down surfing the internet and playing video games.

Feeling pushed for time, we often grab food and eat it in the car on the way to the next activity.  We excuse ourselves saying there simply isn’t time to prepare, sit down, and enjoy an attractive and nutritious meal together.  Our dining rooms sit empty and our best dishes never get used.  We have lost the art and enjoyment of dining as a family.  We’ve been programmed to believe that a good meal consists of large portions that are often full of sugar, fat, and salt, and how we consume it really doesn’t matter anymore.

In my dining tutorials and classes, I like to teach that a meal should include fuel for both our body and our spirit.  A dining experience should enrich all of our senses—what we see, smell, touch, taste—and hear in the way of conversation.

Dining together is not about the food.  It’s about the people and building relationships.  The people around the table get first priority.  While we make sure the food is good, it takes second place.  The main purpose of a meal is to nurture friendships and build rapport among the people.

Dining together is not about looking or being pretentious in our manner.  It’s all about helping people relax, feel comfortable and confident, able to enjoy the meal, the people, the place, and the purpose of the occasion.  Lifetime memories are made as we dine together.

A rich and fulfilling meal does not require a multi-course gourmet spread with a perfectly appointed table of the finest china, crystal, and linens.  All it requires is good food that fuels the body, a setting that feeds the soul, and relationships to be nourished.  Research studies show that when families eat dinner together their health is improved, parents do better at work, children do better in school, and they all have fewer social challenges.

When dining together, your manner and dining etiquette are on display and will be observed.  Knowing the general guidelines of dining etiquette will put you at ease, increase your confidence, and contribute to a positive outcome.  Develop your dining skills so you can better represent yourself and your family.

Let’s again make time to practice the art of dining and experience the joy of breaking bread with those we love!

Copyright Judith Rasband and Conselle L.C. 2009

Judith Rasband is the Image Expert and would love to guide you through a dining tutorial!  Visit www.conselle.com or call 801-224-1207 to learn more.

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Foundation isn't requisite for a beautiful face.

By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM 

“I want to be attractive,” writes a reader, “but I don’t want to wear all that stuff— the foundation and stuff. Do I have to wear foundation to be attractive?” 

The answer is a resounding, “NO!” You don’t have to wear “all that stuff” or foundation to be more attractive. 

Many women are surprised to learn that foundation base is not essential. It’s an option. Some exclaim, “Oh, what a relief. I never did like the way it feels on me.” You can choose to wear foundation once in a while, on weekdays, on weekends only or not at all. 

Many men tell us that foundation-free, natural looking skin is infinitely more attractive and desirable than an artificial film of makeup coating the face. They openly resent it getting on their clothes or on their face! 

 

Makeup artist, George Masters, admits he advises few women to wear foundation makeup. Save it for those in the public eye or under the critical eye of the camera. Even then, models are cautious about using foundation after work hours and use it sparingly or not at all. 

Cosmetic foundation does serve a variety of purposes: 

•     Foundation base makeup is intended to create the illusion of flawlessly beautiful skin. 

•     Foundation can be used to camouflage blemishes, birthmarks and other highly colored areas. 

•     Foundation is now sold as a shield or guard to protect skin from the environment. 

•     Foundation augments the use of moisturizer in helping prevent dryness over long periods of time. 

•     Several foundation formulas now contain sunscreen to protect against ultraviolet rays of the sun. 

•     Foundation provides a velvety smooth base allowing additional makeup colors to glide smoothly and evenly over it. Since the skin, by itself, has no adhesive properties, foundation gives color eye shadows and blush something to hold on to, to adhere for a reasonable length of time. Keep in mind, however, that moisturizer and powder will accomplish the same job, and perhaps more attractively. 

If you have clear skin, you can get away without wearing foundation.

Poorly selected or applied, foundation can make you look absolutely awful, like a mask, and ruin your whole facial appearance. For many women, it may not even improve skin color or texture. 

If you have clear, lovely skin that does not need smoothing, evening out, etc., you certainly do not need to wear a foundation. If you prefer no foundation, you can protect your skin by keeping it clean and wearing a light moisturizer. If you choose to wear foundation, develop a sensible approach to the products. Select it to match your skin and apply it gently, blending it at the hairline and jaw line.  Set the foundation with a light dusting of loose, translucent powder. 

Copyright Judith Rasband and Conselle L.C. 2009

Judith Rasband is the Image Expert and would love to give you a makeover!  Visit www.conselle.com or call 801-224-1207 to learn more.

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By Judith Rasband, AICI CIM

Your hand and arm gestures can be valuable aids in helping you improve the visual image you present to others.  Learn to use gestures to express yourself with energy and animation.  Use them to reflect your interest and enthusiasm, to rivet the listener’s attention, to create mental pictures in the minds of your audience –be it an audience of one or 100.  Use gestures to support what you’re saying, to intensify the impact of your words and to drive home important points.

Never force your gestures just for the sake of gesturing.  Because thoughts precede any natural body language, gestures must flow naturally from the ideas that you are communicating.  As the words come, so should the appropriate gesture.  Any gesture out of sync with what you’re saying make the message less believable.  Attempts to learn a particular set of gestures are usually doomed to failure because the results appear robotic, stilted and insincere.  Gestures must be clear, never confusing or meaningless.  The more honestly you let your gestures flow, the more believable you become.

Every verb is an excellent opportunity to make a supportive gesture.  For example:  “Let’s pull together.”  Adjectives or descriptive words and phrases provide other opportunities for gesturing.  For example: “There is a huge new development in…”

James Bond Actor Daniel Craig with his hands in his pockets. Photo c/o SplashNewsOnline

If you need somewhere to put your hands, put them in your side pockets.  This is a gesture that relaxes your stance and quickly creates an air of jaunty self-confidence.  It’s particularly good for informal occasions and presentations.  Just don’t twiddle with anything inside your pockets or you’ll ruin the effect.

If you are in a position that requires you to speak before a group, experiment with different gestures and decide which ones best convey your message.

After working with several simple phrases, advance to a full paragraph taken from written material you can relate to or use in your work.  Make your practice more fun and play charades with family and friends.

With time you can expand your gestural vocabulary to enhance your verbal message along with your visual image.

Copyright Judith Rasband and Conselle L.C. 2009

Judith Rasband is the Image Expert and would love to work with you!  Visit www.conselle.com or call 801-224-1207 to learn more.

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